no.10 For stability // Against standing still
The norm can make us feel
Like reaching stability is the end of the road. We forever distract ourselves from what we want to build, acting too busy to commit to anything, feel secure or smell the roses.
Will remind you to, first of all, not freak out at the sound of the word "commitment", and second, to remember that settling down doesn't mean standing still, holding off on dreams or growth (or anything else you want to add to the list). It could just mean committing to the things and people that make us happy.
Or, it'll just make you look really hot, either way, it's all positive!
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I thought stability meant playing it safe
I thought stability meant playing it safe and commitment meant forever - and that was unacceptable. I committed to deviate from life-long safety and found stability in books and the idea of adventure. It was settled, in my childhood brain, I had projects (Novelist/ Performer/ Arctic explorer) to see through.
no.07 For signs // Against Fate
The norm tends to
Say that we're condemned to one future we have very little control over unless we get lucky.
Will remind you to follow your instincts, trust yourself, and look out for the signs because they lead to your greater purpose
Or, it'll just make you feel gorgeous and that's perfectly fine too.
Life's glimmering moments of understanding
2020 has been difficult for everyone, without a doubt. Definitely, a year to remember but also one I would eagerly forget. For me, it started with the abortion of an unplanned pregnancy. My long-term partner and I didn't feel like it was the right moment for us to start a family. Days after, he was diagnosed with a rare type of cancer, and the fight for his life began. Within weeks we heard of the global pandemic making its way to the UK. As if that wasn't enough to pull the rug from under my feet, I also had to deal with the sudden news of my partner's infidelities.
This Month at The Book(ish) Club
Growing through storytelling is at the core of what we do at the underargument.
So every month, we ask ourselves a question inspired by one of the underargument's themes and vote for 3 books on the topic. Each member chooses one of the 3 books to read (or if reading is not your thing, just join for the conversation). We get together online on the last Wednesday of the month to chat through new learnings with members and special guests.
Inspired by no.06 For failures // Against regrets
Discussion point: Success comes hand in hand with failure, and it's a painful truth. How can we accept failure, embrace our journey and make room for our purpose?
The anti-casting is at the core of what we do at the underargument. We believe in the power of individuality, diversity and story-telling.
So, we cast the womxn featured through the brand solely based on a story they shared that's inspired by one of our underarguments. We don't ask for photos, we don't ask for measurements. Only your words. To find out more head to the anti-casting page.
Submit your story HERE
THE BOOK(ISH) CLUB MEETUP
Choose between 3 books inspired by one of the underargument's themes and join us online each month as we dig deeper through the topics that influence the brand with members and special guests.
We welcome those who love reading, those who don't and those who do but never find the time. This is a space for conversations, not a reading marathon. If you love learning new things, this club is for you. Go to the book(ish) club page or click below for more information.
Online every last Wednesday of the month CLICK HERE to join
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